Like any other questions which we face in daily life, there is no exact and specific answer to the question of when to have a kid.
Based on a lot of factors and mutual goal of the both parties, couples could be categorized in the below groups:.
- Some couples like to be young parents because the generation gap
between them and their children will be smaller, so they could understand their
children emotions and way of thinking. As the result, the both generation will
be connected to each other emotionally.
- The second group of couples are who like to firstly enjoy their life with the fullest before being engaged with parenting; that is to travel to different places and enjoy their life as a couple, earn all the money they can and then become parents.
- The third group of couples are who don’t even plan to have kid (s). They mostly do unprotected sex and the unplanned parenting is the result.
- In opposition to the third group, there are group of couples who view parenting as a huge responsibility. They dedicate their life in order to raise a successful, healthy kid. These couples aim to become emotionally ready before having a child.
Personally, Ibelieve the couple who like to have kid (s) should try not to get really hard for
themselves to become parents because they may become so old to be parents. But
on the other hand they should plan to have kid (s) when they can financially afford to have a new member in their family.
What do you think????